FOR HER - BY SAB
Necklace
Plants
Vagus Nerve Stimulator
Band Tee
Pet Ornament
Travel Security
Heated Mug
Skin Care
Cookies
The Cutest Necklace
Mejuri Dôme Liquid Letter Pendant Necklace
Mejuri is my go-to for jewelry that looks expensive but isn't stupid expensive. This pendant necklace is the kind of piece you wear every day and get compliments on constantly. Their gold vermeil actually holds up, and the designs are timeless without being boring. Perfect for someone who appreciates quality but doesn't need flashy. Elegant, simple, done.
The Best Plants Online
I have killed more plants than I care to admit, but The Sill makes it almost impossible. They send healthy plants with actual care instructions, and their customer service is great if something goes wrong. Gift a subscription or a one-time plant delivery. Nothing makes a space feel more like home than living things. They have pet friendly selections, options for every home condition, and if (read: when?) she kills it, they have low-light options for the plant-challenged.
The Optimal Regulation
Truvaga Vagus Nerve Stimulator
Okay, hear me out. I talk a lot about nervous system regulation and this device actually works. It stimulates your vagus nerve which helps shift you out of fight-or-flight. I use it when I'm spiraling, before big meetings, when I can't sleep. Game changer for anyone dealing with anxiety (Hi, it's me!). It's science, not woo-woo. And it's way cheaper than years of therapy.
The Best Band Tees
I have strong opinions about band tees. Most of them are boxy, stiff, and unflattering. Daydreamer makes vintage-inspired ones that actually fit women's bodies and use the softest cotton. Get her favorite band or album and she'll actually wear it instead of stuffing it in a drawer. The quality is incredible and they do all the classics plus some deep cuts. This isn't just another suggestion, I own a minimum of 10 of their shirts, and more are likely to follow...
The Best Friend Ornament
If you have a pet person in your life, this is the gift. Adam takes a photo of your actual animal and creates this gorgeous hand-painted ornament on rustic wood. I got one of my forever boy Clem and one of our current guy Kobe and legitimately ugly cried when it arrived. It's personal, it's thoughtful, and it's not another candle. Order early because these sell out fast and he makes each one himself.
The Piece of Mind
Master Lock Portable Door Lock
Real talk: I don't care how nice the hotel is, I travel with this. After years of solo trips and hearing way too many horror stories, this tiny device gives me actual peace of mind. Takes two seconds to install, works on any inward-opening door, and weighs almost nothing. Every woman in your life who travels needs one. It's not paranoid, it's prepared. Ryan got me this when we first started dating and it's been in my travel bag ever since.
The Best Electric Mug
Happiness Smart Heated Coffee Mug
I don't know who invented self-heating mugs but they understood the assignment. My coffee stays at exactly the right temperature instead of that sad lukewarm situation that happens when I get lost in work. This one has multiple heat settings and actually looks cute on my desk. It's one of those things you don't realize you needed until you have it. This is the only one I found with an insulated top, a status screen, and, best of all, the ability to heat a beverage back up instead of just keeping it at the current temperature.
The Best Growth Factor
Dr. Diamond's Metacine Instafacial Plasma
I'm picky about skincare because most of it is marketing nonsense. This is not that. Dr. Diamond is a Beverly Hills plastic surgeon who created a serum that mimics what PRP does for your skin without the needles and blood draws. Bioengineered growth factors that actually work. My skin looks lifted and has this glow that people notice. Use it morning and night. It layers beautifully under everything else. Worth every penny.
The Most Delicious Treats
Sometimes you just need really good cookies. Lammy's are those cookies. Thick, soft, perfectly sweet. They ship well and taste like someone's grandma made them with love. I keep them stocked and they never last long. Simple gift that makes everyone happy because who doesn't love receiving cookies? Get an assortment so she can find her favorite. Pro tip: I get half a dozen birthday kake with animal cookie in every order and Ryan goes crazy for the pancake with bacon inside!
FOR HIM - BY TECH GUY
Boots
Sneakers
T-Shirt
Button Down
5-Pocket Pants
Waxed Canvas Jacket
Backpack
Electric Shaver
Beard Oil
Best Men's Boots
When Sabrina and I got together, she hated the barefoot running shoes I showed up in, has "lovingly" referred to them as clown shoes on many podcasts. And while she wasn't going to change my mind about how most shoes are prisons for your feet and the importance of proprioception, she did encourage me to find ones that at least look nice. Enter the Xero Ridgeway Chelsea, hands down the best zero drop Chelsea boot I've come across, even Sabrina approved! These are my go-to boots to slip on and go explore the town in, and if you are in search of hiking boots, can't recommend the Scrambler Mid enough!
Best Sneakers
Beckett Simonon Garcia Sneakers
Sabrina helped me understand that sneakers don't have to be chunky athletic shoes, and while I always prefer a barefoot sneaker, sometimes you need to have options to meet the occasion. These Garcia sneakers are handmade leather, minimal design, and work with basically everything. The direct-to-consumer model means you're getting way more quality than the price suggests. They take a few weeks since they're made to order, so plan ahead. Worth the wait.
Best T-Shirt (No, Really...)
Found Softwear through Sabrina and I'm genuinely obsessed. Am I biased because my partner started this company? Sure! Does that means I don't wear one of these every single day!? Absolutely not. These shirts feel like the softest thing you've ever worn. Not exaggerating. I put one on and immediately ordered more. If your guy is the type to live in basic tees, upgrade him to these. Better comfort level, better looking fit, so much so that I basically live in these shirts. Get one for yourself while you are at it. Use code 'SZS' for 20% off any full priced item
Best Button Down
Noble Threads Long-Sleeve Casual Button-Down
Hate the feel of dress shirts but want to look your best? The knit material of Noble Threads button down feels like you are wearing a T-Shirt while being sharp enough that you aren't going to look schlubby showing up to an event in, absolutely love the versatility! Bonus points for the breathability, I don't sweat like I do in other button-downs in this fabric. Have an atypical body size? They'll even toss you $10 per shirt towards any tailoring work if you are like me and struggle with off the rack purchases.
Best Pants
Mack Weldon Radius 5-Pocket Pant
As a stockier guy, I struggle with pants, with most not fitting my quads and calves. Mack Weldon is a completely different experience, being more athletic cut, they have 4-way stretch, and as someone who finds a way to spill pretty much every liquid held, their stain resistant finish has saved me in more times than I can count. These are my go to, easy to dress up or down, look just as good at an event as they do out watching the game.
Best Jacket
Thursday Waxed Canvas Field Jacket
I'll admit it, I have a problem. And that problem is how much I love Thursday Boots jacket selections. While their leather jackets are stellar (check out the Keanu), a waxed jacket is always my go-to. Thursday's features 10oz waxed canvas from Halley Stevensons, the highest quality available, and you can feel the difference from the moment you open up the box. The patina these develop are second to none, legitimately my favorite jacket out there.
Best Backpack
Every guy I know has either a beaten-up backpack from college or something designed purely for function with zero style. The WANDRD PRVKE is the answer. It's got enough compartments to satisfy the organization-obsessed (hi, that's me), looks sleek enough that Sabrina approves, and can handle a weekend trip or daily commute. External laptop access, luggage passthrough, and expandable with the roll top access, has replaced all my bags except hiking packs.
Best Electric Shaver
Manscaped The Chairman Electric Shaver
Look, we all need to groom. This is the best electric shaver I've found that actually gives a clean shave without tearing up your face. The foil technology is solid, it's waterproof, and travels well. Not glamorous, but genuinely useful. Every guy needs quality grooming tools. This is one of those gifts that seems simple but gets used every single day.
Best Beard Oil
Didn't know beard oil could be a luxury item until I tried Aesop. This stuff makes my mustache and beard actually soft instead of that wiry texture that bothered Sabrina, meaning less resistance to kissing (win for all!). A few drops go a long way, smells sophisticated without being overpowering, and the bottle looks good on your bathroom counter. Small upgrade that makes a noticeable difference without breaking the bank.
FOR COUPLES
Conversation Starters
Date Night Ideas
Movie Night Popcorn
Candle
Couples Massage
Mind Exploration
Date Night Cookbook
Chocolate & Wine Set
Deeper Connection
Sabrina: This is the real deal for couples who want to go deeper. Not surface-level "what's your favorite color" stuff but actual questions that spark meaningful conversations. We've used these on date nights when we want to connect beyond the day-to-day.
Tech Guy: Fair warning, some of these questions will surprise you. In a good way. Prepare to learn things about your partner you didn't know.
Check out Ryan and I answering questions on their YouTube.
Idea Inspiration
Tech Guy: We got stuck in the "what do you want to do tonight" loop for way too long. Now we just pull from the jar when we're both tired of deciding.
Sabrina: Some are adventurous, some are cozy, all of them get you out of the dinner-and-Netflix rut. It takes the mental load off and adds spontaneity back into the relationship. Gift it to couples who've been together a while.
Upgraded Experience
Urban Accents Movie Night Popcorn Gift Set
Sabrina: Movie night is sacred in our house. This set upgrades it from microwave bags to actual event-level popcorn. And truthfully, there is nothing more than I love that popcorn during a flick.
Tech Guy: Multiple flavor options, quality kernels, and it feels like a whole experience instead of an afterthought. Perfect for couples who've exhausted Netflix but not each other. Pop some corn, pick something neither of you has seen, phones away. I gave this to Sabrina on Valentine's Day and she absolutely loved it.
Matching Set Sans Cringe
Tech Guy: I'm not usually a matching clothes person but these hoodies are unreal. Softest thing I own. Sabrina and I actually have a code word when the day is done and we go get to get in our comfies, "time for clouds!"
Sabrina: Get two because sharing isn't happening. The quality is insane for the price and they actually get softer with each wash. Cozy couple vibes without being cringey about it.
Use code 'SZS' for 20% off any full priced item
Mood Setter
Sabrina: Yes, I made a candle. It smells incredible and the name captures my whole vibe. Light it when you're done with the drama and ready to set boundaries with yourself or others.
Tech Guy: It actually smells really good. Sabrina tested approximately 47 scent combinations before landing on this one. Makes your space feel intentional and cozy.
Shared Relaxation
Tech Guy: Getting Sabrina to actually relax requires external intervention. A spa gift card removes her ability to say "we don't need to spend money on that."
Sabrina: Okay, fair. Experiences over things, always. Book a couples massage or let them each do their own thing. Either way, scheduled relaxation that can't be rescheduled indefinitely. Couples who regulate together stay together.
Taking Things To The Next Level
Sabrina: We've been intentional about incorporating plant medicine into our relationship. These aren't for checking out, they're for checking in. Microdosing together has opened conversations we didn't know we needed to have and created space for deeper connection.
Tech Guy: The clarity is real. Walls come down, presence goes up. We set intentions beforehand and it's become one of our most meaningful rituals. Not for everyone, but if you're curious, Mycrologi is a trusted source.
Get Creative In The Kitchen
Tech Guy: Cooking together used to end in mild arguments until we found recipes designed for two people to actually make together as I typically do all the cooking and Sab would just look over my shoulder.
Sabrina: This cookbook assigns tasks so you're both actively involved instead of one person hovering. It's connection through creation. Date night at home that produces food and doesn't require reservations. Highly recommend for couples getting into cooking.
Why Not Both?
Tech Guy: I'd take a good glass of wine over dessert any day. Sabrina would pick chocolate over basically anything. Someone gifted us this and it was the perfect split. Five mini bottles of curated wine for me paired with five Bissinger's truffles for Sab. She got her chocolate fix, I got my tannins, and we made a whole date night out of trying the pairings together.
Sabrina: It turned a random weeknight into something special without any planning. Ideal for couples who don't always agree on dessert.
FOR SELF-CARE
Vibration Plate
Sauna
PEMF Mat
Water Purification
Hydrogen Water
Ketones
Foam Roller
Weighted Blanket
Therapy Ball Set
The Big Shake
LifePro Rumblex Plus 4D Vibration Plate
Tech Guy: This thing looks weird but feels amazing. Stand on it for ten minutes and your whole body wakes up. Great for circulation and recovery.
Sabrina: I use it during my workouts to make the time more challenging or before bed to release tension. It's low-effort movement that actually makes a difference. Perfect for people who sit all day or need help with recovery.
The Splurge
Heavenly Heat 2 Person Combination Sauna
Sabrina: If you're serious about recovery and relaxation, a home sauna changes everything. This one fits two people and combines infrared with traditional heat. I understand this isn't within budget for everyone, but this is the single greatest tool in our recovery arsenal.
Tech Guy: We use it multiple times a week. The detox, the relaxation, the sleep improvement. It's an investment but honestly one of our best purchases. Use our link for $600 off (even on sales), free shipping, and 50% off installation. Trust us, this splurge is incredibly worth it.
Physical and Mental Self Care
Bon Charge Infrared PEMF Mat Max
Tech Guy: PEMF technology sounds like something I'd make up but it's legitimate. Pulsed electromagnetic fields help with recovery and cellular health.
Sabrina: I lay on this thing twice a day and genuinely feel my nervous system downregulate. The infrared heat combined with the PEMF is peak recovery. A tad pricey, but if you're into biohacking and wellness, it has had a profound impact on my anxiety management.
The Everyday Enhancer
Berkey Big Water Filter System
Sabrina: Water quality matters more than people realize. Berkey filters remove basically everything you don't want while keeping the minerals you do.
Tech Guy: No electricity needed, lasts forever with filter replacements, and the water genuinely tastes better. We drink way more water now. It's a big purchase but the cost per gallon over time is tiny.
The Uplevel
Sabrina: Hydrogen-rich water is one of those things that sounds fake but has actual research behind it. Reduces inflammation, supports recovery, antioxidant benefits.
Tech Guy: The science is there. Echo makes a quality system and the water feels different when you drink it. If you're into optimizing, this is a solid addition to your wellness stack.
Mental Clarity
Tech Guy: I've tried a lot of ketone products and most taste like battery acid. Qitone is completely flavorless. Developed with the Buck Institute, it's backed by actual clinical research. Mix it into coffee or a smoothie and you're in ketosis within 30 minutes.
Sabrina: The mental clarity is noticeable. No caffeine, no sugar, no crash. Just clean energy that lasts for hours. We both use it on days when we need sustained focus. If you're curious about ketones but hate the taste of other products, start here.
Roll On
Tech Guy: Foam rolling is non-negotiable for me, have been consistent for over a decade. This wave design gets into spots a regular roller misses.
Sabrina: I keep one in the living room and actually use it because it's right there. Perfect for working out tension, improving mobility, and doing something good for your body in five minutes. Gift it to anyone who sits too much or works out. Plus, it looks better than most others and it's made with algae instead of plastics.
Comfort Is Self Care
Lola Blankets Weighted Blanket
Sabrina: I've talked about weighted blankets forever because they genuinely help regulate the nervous system. The deep pressure is like a constant hug that tells your body it's safe. These are the softest blankets I've ever felt, had to fight with the dog every night over who got the Lola until I decided to buy another.
Tech Guy: Sleep quality improved noticeably when we started using one. Lola makes a quality blanket that doesn't feel too hot. Gift it to anyone with anxiety, sleep issues, or who just needs to calm down. Pro tip: Lola just started making dog beds that are the softest things around.
Goodbye Tension
Tune Up Fitness Roll Model Starter Kit
Sabrina: Fascia release changed my life. These therapy balls get into the deep tissue that foam rollers can't reach. Feet, hips, shoulders, everywhere.
Tech Guy: They hurt so good. Jill Miller is the expert on this and her balls are designed specifically for fascia work. Comes with tutorials so you know what you're doing. Everyone needs these. As someone who optimizes things for travel, I love how compact yet powerful these are, throw them in your travel bag and thank me later.